Wednesday, December 29, 2010

My Sister's Dad

Now as stated in the last post my mom met someone at the bar. I do believe this was a bar either on base or that all the soldiers hung out at. The guy she met was another solider. Once she and my dad split up she started to see this solider. One time they went to visit his family, they now live in Montreal, and I decided to get into her purse. Little kids get into everything LOL. I found her birth control pills and thought they were candy. I sat down on the floor and proceeded to eat them, oh and feed some to the dog, hehehe. I always thought that was funny. Needless to say my mom ended up pregnant that weekend thanks to me, and my sister was born. My mom decided the right thing to do was to marry my sister's father. Now up to the day of the wedding he was sweet and nice, not violent or any indication that he could be that way. After the wedding, that night in fact, he beat the crap out of my mom. This came as a complete surprise to her. Needless to say she did not stick around for more abuse. They were only married for a month or 2. She is a very strong woman to walk away from that situation and care for 2 children on her own. There are many women out there that could not do that or are unable to do that for what ever the reason maybe. It is difficult once lured into a relationship to just walk away when all you hold dear to you is taken so violently away. I am proud that she was able to care on and not look back on that dissension. It was the right one for all of us!

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